integrating wordpress into an existing website

[2handband]

I'm trying to get wordpress integrated into a site I've already created. I've been partially successful... blog postings now display on my homepage. I've got three issues I need to get resolved:

 

1) The title of each post (amongst other things) is a link to the blog. I don't want users to see the blog directly, so how can I unlink that stuff?

 

2) Clicking on "reply" takes you to the blog, with the wordpress default themes and stuff. I'd like people to be able to leave comments without leaving my homepage. Is this possible?

 

3) I need the subscribe button to appear on y homepage.

 

How can I do these three things? The wordpress php code is way, way over my head... i can barely handle straight html.