Yes i called tech and talked to them for about 1 minute and the guy was like i have a link to your email on the way. He knew what i was talking about right away. It was very easy to add and you are right. It involved a thankyou.html which i created to return. You could also just put in your index.html file where the thankyou file is which would just return you to the homepage.
I will commit on the windows vs linux. That was my second major problem. I was using a windows server that did not even support php, lol. Although, if you choose to use a windows server then you need to select